Just a heads up. I was told by a pot that there is a group sharing notes and informal on us out there. SB’s have some sort of online group where they can discuss us. Who pays, whose cheap and potentially inner secrets. Just staying community minded here.
I wouldn't sweat too much. The sugar community is so dispersed with gals and guys moving in and out every day. There's a high proportion of women to men and the girls complain how hard it is to find someone.
Of course there are some semi-pros and many girls get into this through friends who share some info as I'm sure some guys do. I suppose there's always the potential for outing married guys as with any of this activity but most gals know that's a dangerous game and unlikely to work. And I think most of us are pretty careful with how much we share about ourselves. So I don't think it's any more risky than escorting.
I will point out one group to watch out for -- that's the SugarBabyOnly forum on reddit, not to be confused with the sugarlifestyle forum. The baby-only forum is highly misandric -- that's the equivalent of misogynistic -- and they spend all day complaining that guys are cheap, and it doesn't matter if they lose a few hundred, and SBs should not accept less than escorts. Guys can't post on there but we can read it. I wouldn't be surprised if they share some things offline, but again it's such a big world out there it's hard to think of much harm.
Yeah, I bet they are just venting, like we do here. If they really didn't like some aspect of it, they'd all move on.
Where these are at and how we see them. I really don't like my info being out there