A month ago I saw a girl in Downtown that does sensual massage. Advertises hands only. 10+ years of reviews and not one mention of anything beyond hj. She tell me to bring a condom next time and I was pretty surprised. I'm not a fs guy, but it's intriguing. No mention of extra cost, and she seemed into our session, sincerely. My wonder is would she suddenly change services after so many years? Did she take a shining to me (I'm nothing great but far from hideous). I didn't review her because I stopped reviewing some time ago, had a few providers complain I was too honest and had reviews removed. And in this case I feel that might be true.
I've been offered fs or at least bj from a fair percentage of providers that never advertise upgrades or have reviews revealing them.
At least on TER, most clients respect massage provider's wishes, spoken or not, to keep extras from reviews.
I kind of like your provider's style in asking you to bring the condom. Sort of implies she doesn't keep a jumbo box on hand and therefore you are special. Likewise, not pushing an upsell is a great hook to reel in a repeat.
Of course, now I have to sleuth downtown massage providers with 10 years experience, lol.