Hi everyone,
I'm a newbie and have never been through the 'screening' process.
Can someone tell me what exactly that is...also, just want to say this board is incredibly intelligent and articulate! The national board is equally interesting in many subjects. Thanks for the info!
First, get a VIP membership, second do a search, third find a well reviewed/respected provider.
Be very careful, ID fraud is rampant these days. If you decide to give your real name, home and work phone #'s and are prepared to show your drivers license when you have your date, make sure you are seeing a respectable provider.
I've even heard of rare cases of extortion.
LOL!!! Decide To Give Your Real Name,Home And Work Phone? You Better Give real info.or word will get out on you real quick in this Biz. Don't worry us good girls won't keep your info.GOD most if the time when a client I've seen before call's back for a second date I can't remember him.LOL!
This is my first post on here, I dont want to step on toes here so if i get out of line let me know.This is part of my job to make sure i have check out my date not only for me but for others in this line of work, i am all ways asking ifyou know of a better way to clear some so that we know for sure they are not a LE please let us know, even with the info.. i get sometimes i fine it really hard to clear them.. but i do all i can to do that.some will not even see you if you have not seen oneof us before i am trying not to be like that some has to bring them in to the hobbie i know i should not but if i can check them out at work or a web site and i read on net all the time. ITS part of my job to keep up with as much as i can. thanks for your time HUNTER
hi and welcome dano
the screening process is different for each and every provider and agency, but basically they are trying to determine if you are safe to meet privately, will not harm them in any way, and you are not a member of LE.
your best bet is to be up front and honest, open communication of expectations will make or break the first encounter for both of you. if you do not feel comfortable giving this information out, trust your gut instinct and find someone else. that's where a first contact to inquire about services and screening is sometimes helpful, before trying to set up the actual appointment. be prepared to be asked for full name, age, home address, phone #, as well as your work information, employer, address, phone #, etc. also, a personal reference from another provider you have seen recently is usually requested, if possible.
some will accept this over the phone, some prefer an email, or I've even been asked to fax from work. be careful who you give this information to of course, but understand any reputable provider is only asking for her own safety. despite all the advertisement that all this is kept confidential and used discreetly, don't be naive enough to believe that; some ladies may keep records, or even share this information (especially in that reference that they asked for). of course some clients/hobbyists create false identities use pay phone #, email account used only for hobby activity, etc.
above all, use this site for what it's here for, check reviews, read the boards, and learn as much as you can from it so you don't repeat any of our mistakes.
good luck and please for the love of God, BE SAFE
best regards, mr.man
That was a very good post and I couldn't have said that better my self. 