Hello, have any of you done BBFS before and if so how to go about that or ask that or if that's even a thing really?
sorry I am new and looking to get my first meeting but would like ot see if this is an option

Asking publicly for it means you've probably already done it. You should have done your research under the radar. For example, you could have done a search for posts discussing BBFS. Oh well...too late now.

im sorry but what are you saying?

See, for example, this recent thread:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/new-york-2/ladies-that-provide-bbfs-with-testing--266724?page=
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