I called my first escort last week! She said it was $125 for an hour session and I told her to come on over! She arrived promptly and I paid her the money! We proceeded to the bedroom where she had me take my cloths off! She asked if it was my first time and I said yes! She then rubbed my back and proceeded to tell me that it was going to be $100 for topless hand job or $150 for topless BJ! No sex though she said! I was puzzled and said screw that and told her to leave!
This kinda ruined it for me but would love to give it a shot again! I would like to know if this is how it is always done? Hopefully not! Also wondering if incall is the better way to go! Thankyou for the help it is much appreciated!
If you're not a VIP member yet, I'd advise you to become one. Then do some research on the ladies in your area to see which are honest and which are ROB's. I wouldn't have had a clue without the information proved by this and other boards to the in's and out's (no pun intended) of this biz.
Good hunting
I agree with lap dawg. However, although I know we all have a budget we need to work with, I think that you should seriously consider upping the amount you are willing to spend. Your average decent escort is not going to give you full service for less than $250.00 to $300.00 and up depending on your area.
My suggestion, save your money and do it right.
Remember the old saying "you get what you pay for"
Good Luck
hi chuck
sorry to hear about your bad experience, but all is not lost, you are in the right place to get some helpful hints.
first, as others suggested, do your homework and use this site for what it's here for. find the lady that interests you and then do some research. maybe read reviews, monitor who gets attention on the boards, or even post a question here if anyone has seen her before. be aware of competitive rates in your area, $125/hour is usually going to be what you experienced with upselling. look for an ad that states something like "rates are all inclusive" and "tipping is not required", or words/phrases that indicate full service. incall or outcall should not make any difference, nor does independent vs. agency; some are legitimate and some are rip offs. most of the better providers that frequent this site have a screening process for new clients. many, but certainly not all, providers that will see you at a moments notice are not concerned with who they encounter because it's a scam or not the best level of service. planning in advance can usually help, and can provide the opportunity to get a feel for each other.
once you have done your homework, and you contact this lady/agency for the first time, make sure you communicate your expectations of the date to her. of course do not discuss money or sex, just make sure she knows that you are making a serious inquiry about her services and not going to waste her time. remember that each and every person is different, it may not always be exactly what you anticipated, so don't let a less than stellar or average date get you down. keep going until you find out how to get what you want and find the right lady who is willing to offer that service.
most all of us take one for the team now and again, don't get discouraged or frustrated. the right provider for you is out there waiting for your call, just go out and find her.
better luck to you, and happy hobbying
best regards, mr.man
Very Bad.She was NOT full service GFE. $125. ? Did she state when you called her that she was full service GFE? If so then you got scamed. Check reviews and ask others on the boards before seeing a girl the next time.So sorry this happend to you. But please don't give up,there are nice girls out there.
too bad it wasn't the kind you expected. There are too many great providers for this happen to a newbie. Do your homework. Read the reviews and email other hobbyists. Look for a GFE & spring for an hour.
Ouch man! Sorry to hear that you got robbed like that. Consider it a lesson learned. It's good that you didn't give her more money. Some girls like their work and won't try to take advantage of you, others just want the quick cash and will rip every guy off that they can.
I posted a little list of ripoff warning signs on this board, feel free to check that out.
I know some guys like having out call, but I find it best to do incall. This way you can ask your questions and if she agrees to what you're looking for you can keep your money and leave.
Last thing you want is a girl in your place or hotel room demanding money or shouting that prostitution is illegal - or worse, having her driver bang on your door yelling at the top of his voice that you owe him money and that what you asked for is illegal.
Personally, I prefer going to them and leaving if they seem sketchy.
Just remember, if she's not going to give you what you want - LEAVE. It's not worth having a bad time with someone who lays there like a dead body or someone who won't do anything. It sucks to do all the prep work, drive there and come home with nothing, but at least you'll have your cash in hand.
The other guys are also right, use TER. Even if you're only a basic member. If she's not reviewed, don't go to her. Sure she may be good, but if she rips you off, you're really going to be pissed. The other suggestion given is good too, save your cash and see someone who provides a girlfriend experiece (GFE) - if thats what you want.
I hope this doesn't confuse you, but if it helps consider your location and estimate what the fair market value of the service is worth and figure out how much you'd want to pay over that.
Good luck next time.