Review: SoftlySarah / Sarah Landon

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"It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. ... There are those who give with joy and that joy is their reward" (The Prophet, Kahlil Gibran). These words come to mind as I try to characterize my ongoing hobby relationship with Sarah.

I feel compelled to update the review that I first wrote in Sept 2012 because my appreciation of Sarah as an amazing woman and a top notch provider just gets more and more profound with each succeeding time that we see each other . I will plan business trips with her in mind and if necessary, drive miles out of my way to see her ( I have and so has she). She's that special!

I still vividly recall that what had first drawn me Sarah was her posts on the various TER boards. I was impressed by her values and her views, always expressed in just the right way, succinctly and articulately, with self respect, dignity and respect for others. She avoids stooping to the levels of crassness and nastiness that sometimes invades the discussions. Sarah is a beautiful and attractive woman. But her beauty transcends the physical. She is one of the most "beautiful" people, in its fullest sense of the word, that I have met in this hobby world of ours, and indeed, in life. I have been captivated not so much by her petite frame, which is lovely, nor by the size of her breasts, but by an enchanting, intelligent, delightful, sensual woman.

Through our emails and our meetings, we have discovered much in common, despite vastly different backgrounds. We always begin our dates over cocktails and our last date was over a full dinner, relaxed, unrushed, savoring each morsel of food while engaged in deep, meaningful, stimulating and thought provoking conversation. Our conversations always flow naturally. We could easily spent our entire time just talking and I would have leave with a smile and warm feelings. But our conversations just serve to increase my appetite and yearning for the final course. I find myself growing in my desire for |"dessert" with Sarah in the privacy of my room, anticipating the next much more personal and intimate level of our bonding. And the dessert is always wonderful!

Sarah had once written about "bounded authenticity" in the hobby world, meaning that the bonding between two people can be genuine and emotionally authentic even in this context. Sarah truly believes that and exemplifies that principle. The emotions of "bounded" love that I feel from her when we are together are genuine and real and let me share a secret - love making for me is much more beautiful and successful when I am feeling love for as well as from my partner. It's more than the desire to please. It's the yearning to feel bonded in shared moments of ecstasy. Sarah does that so well. And for her it is authentic and sincere, not just acting.

Sarah is a gem.