during the session. But unless she's a gusher, or we can see her face or chest flush we can't be sure. Yes, she's paid; we shouldn't worry about it. But for me, it adds a lot to my enjoyment. So selfishly I ask, What's the most likely way to get her off?
I always ask them about it, without TRYING to put pressure on them.
I'm open to any technique, will do anything. Only fair, since that's what I expect of them.
And, sure, it may not be possible for some chicks, for whatever reasons.
All comments welcome...
. . . look like Tom Cruise. 
Nevermind. 
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1} RELAX, and enjoy yourself.
2} Drink lots of fluids, preferably non-alcoholic, before the visit.
3) Keep it slow and simple. Use the full time you paid for!!!
I hope this helps,
jazz32
Aah, you are a noble soul, Ropegun. This is, however, one of those activities where there are no implicit warranties. One way of dealing with this is to NOT ask what makes the woman come. Even though you're coming from a generous and gentlemanly place, just the mere question can be experienced as pressure. Also, let me just briefly point out that many women experience orgasm without chest flushes, so that isn't necessarily an absolute sign. But back to getting someone off: Take your time. Go slow. Be extremely gentle. Let her relax into wherever you want her to go. Let her increase the tempo as she gets more turned on. The most common mistake men make is rushing and being too heavy-handed with the clitoris. Don't treat her clitoris like an elevator button, treat it like a butterfly. Be tender. Learn from lesbian sex (really!) and see how sweet women can be to one another. Now you go be that sweet guy. Remember, looong, sloooow strokes. A brief massage maybe, and then small, tender kisses all over her body. You want her mushy and relaxed, with her guard down. Like a purring kitten. And don't think so much about looking for signs. They'll come to you when you least expect them.
How fun for you trying!
Love Goddess
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What about asking the girl to self stimulate -- either during sex or a solo act. Are providers open to masturbating infront of a client?
I would say that all providers are open to masturbating in front of a client, although you'll never know if it's for show or for real. It's up to you to decide if that aspect matters or not...