Does anybody have any recommendations for sites or providers who are alt/goth? Thinking along the lines of tattoos, dark eyes and hair, that "punk" look haha any advice would be appreciated!

As subs or doms? Anyhow I've seen goth chicks listed on sugar babe sites. It doesn't mean they are into BDSM. But it's a start.

TBH I didn't know exactly where to post this - but ideally I'd be looking for a sub or switch

Yeah, you're more likely to find a sub in the sugar babe world.  Most pros prefer to be doms -- it's safer for them.
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I don't mean to offend anyone, but I've found that "larger" ladies are far more open to being subs.  

Just a possibility.

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